Relocating Overseas? Five Things That Might Help -

Cross-posted from my blog, The Runaway Expat.

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Moving abroad for the first time can (occasionally) be a very baffling decision.
But if you're considering it, I'd say "Go for it!" --

It will not only be life changing; but a rewarding experience too. Trust me.


Research -

So you've accepted this amazing job offer in a far-flung land. Go online -- get to know where you're going, talk to people who have been there. You know, do something about it. If possible, ask your new company to allow a pre-visit so you'll know what to expect when you arrive.

Meet People - 

When you first arrive in your new host country, it is important to meet people and make new friends. Get involve at school (if you're a parent), seek out local groups and don't just stick to the expats (though I quite like InterNations community). Not isolating yourself from others can greatly improve your perspective of your new home and it helps to have local (and expats alike) friends to connect with.

Learn the Language - 

This doesn't mean you have to be fluent in the span of one month. But, yes, learn the language of your new home. It'll make life much easier especially if you're going to live in a country where English isn't widely spoken. Know the basic at the very least. It will help you get around, and boost relationships at your new workplace.

Be Open; Embrace Independence - 

If you've always been dependent on someone (it could be your parents, spouse, etc.), you might have a hard time abroad. It is important to learn how to do things yourself. You also need to be comfortable being alone, be open to surprises and not always compare your host country to your home. Sure, the grass might be greener at home but if you keep thinking about it, it'll make your transition a very hard one.

"No Vacancies" - 

Don't underestimate how many guests you will have in your first year abroad. Sometimes, these requests might even come from people you haven't heard from in years. I'm not saying say no to everyone; but don't let yourself get overbooked. You need time to get to know your new city, your new life. Constantly having guests to entertain is certainly not conducive.


And honestly. It will not be a bed of roses -- there will be times when your new expat life displeases you, when you desperately want to go home to your comfort zone. But then, there will be days when you realise how lucky you are to have the opportunities many can only dream of having.


So, live it up.
Bon Voyage! Gueti Reis! 잘다녀오십시오!


All the very best of luck with your new adventure.